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I have a boyfriend whom I love so much, but something happened just last week. He saw some chats on my WhatsApp and got upset. The truth is, I actually wanted him to see those chats so that he would leave me. I got this point because of his inconsistency.
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Every time we get intimate, he stops picking up my calls. Even when I am in need and I ask for his assistance, he won’t show up for me. He only knows how to be caring and loving when he wants his needs to be met. The moment he gets his satisfaction he disappears.
I know I should have left him long ago but my heart was too weak to do what was necessary. That’s why I wanted him to be the one to break up with me. And I felt the only way to do that was to let him think I was involved with other guys.
Even though I never slept with the guys in my chat, our conversations were romantic. Some, I even made plans to meet them. I encouraged their attention and flirted with them. I had no intentions to see them but I needed my boyfriend to think something had happened or something was going to happen.
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To my surprise, all he did was get angry and rant. He didn’t even storm out of my place. Instead, he spent the night with me. After that, he didn’t talk about the messages. He hasn’t made any attempts to leave the relationship. Now I am confused.
What’s the meaning of his behaviour? Is it that he loves me so much that he cannot afford to lose me? If that’s the case then why does he sometimes ignore my calls or refuse to help me when I’m in need? I thought he behaved that way because he didn’t love me. That’s why I tried to push him away. But now, I don’t know what to think.
—Linda
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