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Grammy-winning Nigerian singer, Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has revealed the kind of men she can never date or marry.
In a recent interview with American outfit Complex, the ‘Love Me Jeje’ crooner said she can’t date an unfriendly man or a man who is not curious about her.
According to her, the essence of a relationship is lost if a partner isn’t trying to be your friend and curious about their spouse.
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In her words:
“My dating terms are someone who is not trying to be your friend is a red flag.
Anybody that isn’t curious about you is also a red flag. Because what are we doing? Why are we here if you don’t want to know me?
If he or she doesn’t want to know more about you, end the relationship.”
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Tems said she is a “lover girl” but trying to be careful due to past experiences. She added that she is more focused on self-love currently.
Tems on her dating red flags ⛳
— “Someone that’s not trying to be your friend, is a red flag. Anybody that isn’t curious about you, and doesn’t want to know more about you” pic.twitter.com/4iHImSo5CR
— 𝗔𝗟𝗕𝗨𝗠 𝗧𝗔𝗟𝗞𝗦 📀 (@AlbumTalksHQ) December 8, 2025
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